Learn about diabetes
Find out:
- Why and when blood sugar should be checked
- How to recognize and handle highs and lows (more below)
- What lifestyle changes are needed
- Where to go for information and help
Know diabetes is individual
Each person who has diabetes is different, and their treatment
plan needs to fit their specific needs.
Ask and listen
Ask your friend or relative how you can help, and then listen to
what they say. They may want reminders and assistance (or may
not), and their needs can change over time.
Go to appointments
Go with your relative or friend to health care appointments if
it's OK with them. You could learn more about how diabetes
affects them and how you can be the most helpful.
Make time for self-care
Give them time in the daily schedule so they can manage
diabetes—check blood sugar, make healthy food, take a walk.
Avoid blame
Many people with
type 2 diabetes are
overweight, but being
overweight is just one of several factors involved. And blood
sugar levels can be hard to manage even with a healthy diet and
regular physical activity. Diabetes is complicated!
Step back
You may share the same toothpaste, but your family member may
not want to share everything about managing diabetes with you.
The same goes for a friend with diabetes.
Accept the ups and downs
Moods can change with blood sugar levels, from happy to sad to
irritable. Ask your friend or relative to tell their health care
team if they feel sad on most days—it could be depression.
Be encouraging
Tell them you know how hard they're trying. Remind them of their
successes. Point out how proud you are of their progress.
Walk the talk
Follow the same healthy food and fitness plan as your loved one.
It's good for your health, too. Lifestyle changes become habits
more easily when you make them together.
Know the lows
Hypoglycemia (low blood sugar) can be serious and needs to be
treated immediately. Symptoms vary, so be sure to know your
friend's or relative's specific signs, which could include:
- Shakiness, nervousness, or anxiety
- Sweating, chills or clamminess
- Irritability or impatience
- Dizziness and difficulty concentrating
- Hunger or nausea
- Blurred vision
- Weakness or fatigue
- Anger, stubborness, or sadness